As we start to understand that “Control Dramas” exist, we can further enhance our awareness of these behaviors displayed by others and ourselves. In this way, we can take the steps to transcend and interpret them on a much deeper level, both spiritually and psychologically. People seek to control others. It can be seen that […]
How to Become a Wiser, Happier You I like to use the phrase, the “Big Picture” when discussing the highest point of consciousness by which one might view human evolution (and our individual situation) as we live this mysterious life of ours. In the weeks that follow, we will also talk about RELATIONSHIPS, HEALTH, and […]
A mother wrote me recently, “How can I heal the conflicts with my daughter?” Her family feels that they are walking on eggshells so as to not upset her. This mother believes her daughter is using the “Poor Me” control drama to get things she wants from her family. Her daughter tries to gain power […]
Basic to personal and spiritual growth is feeling confident, and thus knowing what to say and when to act, as we pursue our lives. The key to building such confidence, in my opinion, lies in pursuing spirituality until we connect with the Divine Intelligence that lives within us. This feels like a “download of our […]
Any change in life can be unsettling. Sometimes we think we’re heading in one direction and then, suddenly, we have to adjust to a new situation. These shifts may or may not be welcome, but uncertainty is one of the certainties we all face. The good news is that if we can fully face reality […]
We all have a basic desire to feel love and cultivate relationships of all kinds, but above all, we hunger for a committed romantic relationship. Feeling deeply in love with another person is an immediate, heart-opening experience. I believe Synchronicity is timed so perfectly that two people who are born at a certain time, from […]
And Keep It Forever I have to be truthful here and tell you something up front: I have had many relationships that have ended badly, mainly because of my impatience or perfectionism. But the more I embraced the idea of having a giving attitude and communicating better, the more my relationships –romantic and otherwise — […]
I remember how I felt the year I turned thirty. It was a shock. I had never been able to relate to people over thirty, and it felt strange to suddenly be one of them. When I looked in the mirror, I felt old and young at the same time. I had mistakenly convinced myself […]
Celestine Vision Community blog: We continue to learn how humans use power and control in relationships to gain security, as humans primarily feel lost and insecure in the world. Instead of seeking security through the connection with the Divine Mind we call God, we have found it by force. When we gain insight into our […]
I have questioned the direction of my life for as long as I can remember. Early on, I tried several paths for work (mainly in the arts and service) but I never became entirely defined by any one passion. I always loved seeking out adventure and new experiences, but I had a hard time making […]
