A mother wrote me recently, “How can I heal the conflicts with my daughter?” Her family feels that they are walking on eggshells so as to not upset her. This mother believes her daughter is using the “Poor Me” control drama to get things she wants from her family. Her daughter tries to gain power […]
Watching for Synchronicity Since launching the new website, I felt the urge to put all of my life, money, and time into this project. I cannot help it! Besides the fact that I am having so much fun, I want to see the website succeed – of course. 🙂 I want to share with you […]
People all over the world are calling for more democracy and transparency in government, business, and in life. There is no doubt that this is a positive sign — a sign that people feel empowered enough to create a better world. In my last book The Twelfth Insight, I set out to explain this call […]
When I say, “Spirituality,” I am not talking about the decision to “believe” in God or not. And clearly, not as some old image of a bearded man sitting on a throne in the sky (an icon skeptics love to disparage). To enhance one’s life, I am talking about connecting and downloading a loving, tangible force […]
Ever feel flat and dead in the water? Doubtful about whether your dreams are valid and will ever come true? Well, we have all been in this place. But more and more, we’re understanding that there is another life waiting for us. I believe we can prove to ourselves that the universe around us is, […]
As we start to understand that “Control Dramas” exist, we can further enhance our awareness of these behaviors displayed by others and ourselves. In this way, we can take the steps to transcend and interpret them on a much deeper level, both spiritually and psychologically. People seek to control others. It can be seen that […]
The other day my 4-year-old stood up on a kitchen chair, pointed a finger at his Dad and said, loudly, “Hey, hey, stop talking over me. You’re talking over me.” While I originally brought it up to a friend of mine as a cute, clever story about my child, it sparked a conversation about how […]
by Candella Like many others, I was very excited when I first read the Celestine Prophecy 20 years ago and saw the explanations of the Control Dramas. Of course, I recognized those Control Dramas being played out everywhere I turned, by everyone I knew. I could easily identify that my father was mostly an Intimidator, […]
